True Networking: Ask for it!

Here’s what they don’t you tell in networking classes:  you have to be ready to ask for what you need.  Say you are wrapping up a call with someone and they say “Thanks for taking the time to answer my questions.  Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.”

Your response should start with “Well, as a matter of fact…..I was wondering if you know…”

When you are offering your expertise, it is perfectly fair to ask for something in return but usually, we are so flattered to have been asked that we forget.

When someone thanks me for helping with their resume, I could put on my business development hat and ask if their company is hiring.  Or I could ask if they might be willing to put a recommendation on linkedin.

When someone asks to borrow my French press coffee maker, I usually ask if I could have a cup, too.

This is not to say that everything has to be reciprocated.  Life should not be one negotiation after another.  Just be on the lookout for ways other people can help you and don’t be shy about it.

People want to help.  It makes them feel good but they can’t read your mind.  You have to spell out what you need even when you think it should be dead obvious.

So put it out there.  Keep thinking and keep asking.  You’ll be surprised at what can happen.

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Beware: Lame Chicken Joke Ahead

Did you hear the one about the recruiter who crossed the road?

He wanted to recruit the chicken.

Why?

Because he knew the chicken would accept a poultry salary.

This morning I spent some time searching the web for recruiter jokes.  This is the best one I could find.

Don’t get me wrong.  There were lots of jokes but they were all cynical, rude and mean.

Now, it’s possible that the moon is in the wrong place and I am being too thin-skinned but I don’t think most recruiters are money loving salespeople who would lie to their mother to close a deal.

Real recruiters are advocates for their clients and for their candidates.  They know how to listen to the back story.  They know how to do research and how to use what they learn to make strong matches.

We take pride in getting thank you cards from candidates who have just gotten promoted.  We are happier still when candidates call to ask us to help find people for their own team.

Sure, we have bills to pay and there is a certain pride and confidence that comes from making more money than before but not at the expense of people’s lives.

Real recruiters are happy to cross the road to talk to the chicken but only if the client can afford chicken.  If not, we’ll head out to the barn for some goat.

 

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Spiff it up and Spell it out

I read resumes for a living and sometimes I feel compelled to let you know about some nasty things that I see.  Nasty may be a little strong but in the scheme of things, this is your career and your resume should represent you clearly and professionally.

Today’s bugaboo is abbreviations.   One of the resumes I read today was full of abbreviations and it damn near drove me crazy.  If you don’t have time to write out the word, you don’t have time for my job.

If you are senior, say senior.  Not Sr.

If you are a Mechanical Engineer, do not succumb to using Mech. Eng to refer to yourself.

Sr Mech Eng looking for long term growth opp.

This kind of language is fine is you are tweeting or looking for a date but has not place on a resume.

Seriously.  What happens if your resume is received by someone who does not know what the abbreviations stand for?

If you specialize in piping design systems, say so.  PDS could Panzer Dragoon Saga (a role playing game) or the Planetary Data System.

If there is a lengthy term that is going to appear throughout your resume, then you can introduce an abbreviation early on (in parentheses after the term) so the reader knows exactly what you are talking about.

So spell it out.  You have worked hard to get where you are.  Let it shine.

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Check please! Reference Checking Today

Imagine you are at the final stages of interviewing for a great job.  The salary, location and job description are all great fits.  You are beyond excited.

You get asked for references.  You just about pass out.  You forgot about this part and have not connected with your references for ages.

Using the guy in the next cubicle three years ago is not going to cut it.  Neither will using your neighbour or a family friend.

Employers want to be able to verify that you do what you say you do in a way that is consistent with how you have presented yourself.

They want to talk to three or four people who have worked closely with you recently enough to remember it.  At least one of those people should have been your manager.

Cultivating references is almost as important as keeping your eyes open for new opportunities.  Think about the people you interact with on a daily basis.  Who would be willing and able to vouch for your skills, attitudes and work ethic?

Don’t let this fall by the wayside.  Keep your resume and references at the ready because you never know where and when the next opportunity will show up.

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Reverse Engineer Your Career

I was at the Canadian Nuclear Association conference in Ottawa last week and some really interesting people came to our booth to talk to us.

The one that stuck out was a soon-to-be graduate of a nuclear engineering program.  Most of his classmates were heading down the typical path – applying to power generation and research companies.  His dreams, however, were different.  He wanted to do work on the policy side, not the application side.

All of his co-op terms and summer jobs had been political, not practical.  He was looking to us for some guidance.

His skill combination was very unusual and was going to make finding a job trickier.  He had already come to the realization that his resume was not going to rise to the top of pile in either world.

I was reminded of a story that Martin Buckland, founder of Elite Resumes, once told me.  He was working with a senior executive who wanted to make a life change.  He wanted to leave the city altogether and be able to live and work at his cottage.

He had discovered that the hospital near his cottage was looking for a CEO.  He came to Martin and asked if together, they could create a resume that would get him in the door for an interview.

They researched what the hospital was going through and identified the challenges and opportunities that the new CEO would have to face and then presented a resume that reflected his experience with those things.

He got an interview and subsequently, got the job.

Did I mention that he had no experience in healthcare?

Here is someone who also had a less-than-typical profile and yet, managed to get into the role he wanted.

The key is to decide where you want to spend your time working.  It does not have to be a specific organization. It can be a certain type or size or location or brand personality.

Once you know where you are going, lay out a map to get there. Do research.  What’s happening in the space?  Who do you know there?  How can your experience help them?  What problems can you solve for them based on your knowledge?

It takes patience and perseverance but it will be worth it in the end.

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Looking for the yuks…..

Job hunting is serious business but sometimes you just need to lighten things up a little.

Finding the lighter side has a similar effect to  going for a run.  Laughing releases a lot of the same endorphins that exercise does ( so does sex but let’s save that for a different day).

  • What is the funniest thing you have ever done at work?
  • If  you could have dinner with any sitcom character, who would it be? What would you talk about?
  • How would your dog describe you?

If these don’t generate some guffaws, try this job hunting mad lib.

Practice your interview techniques by asking someone for each of the required words without telling them the context.  Fill in the blanks and then read it out loud.  It’s probably funnier after a few glasses of wine but a latte would work too.

The other day I applied for a position as a _____(noun)_____.  It said I needed to have a certificate in ______(plural noun)_______ and ________  (plural noun) _______  but I thought I could get by with  my _________(noun) ___________.  I mean, really, how hard could it be?

The ____(occupation) ___________ called me in for an interview.  We talked about  _________ (verb)________.  Then she  asked if I could start in the next few  ________(unit of time)_______________.

They wanted to pay me ____(number )____    ______(plural noun)_____  an hour.  I said that I was so _________(feeling)________,  I would do it for free.

I start next _______  (day of the week)________.


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Networking on the Floor

Trade shows are a great place to network, not just for business but for your career.

You can make real connections with people on the trade show floor.  You won’t have a long time with someone but you can carve out enough to make a good impression.

This is true whether you are working the show as an employee of a company (booth candy) or a delegate (well fed and employed) or in career transition (Tim Horton’s and a resume anyone?).

How to make the most of a trade show:

  1. Get a haircut
  2. Wear a freshly pressed shirt.
  3. Carry cards with your contact information.  This is not the place for a resume.  The goal is to make contact and then follow up with a thoughtful email later.
  4. Set a goal before you start.
    1. Identify three companies that use a certain methodology.
    2. Shake hands with four sales managers.
    3. The week before, contact two people who you know will be there and set up coffee breaks with them.

If you want to actually have time with someone, go when the show is quiet, usually when the seminars/workshops and keynote speakers are on.  At that point, booth staff are usually standing around talking to each other.  That’s a great time to get their attention.

You may find that it’s kind of loud.  Make sure you look into their eyes and speak clearly.  Deliver your message.  Ask for the information you want and move on. It’s not the place to carry on a conversation about why you ended up selling shingles or why you think your boss is an idiot.  Keep it short, clean and direct.

A note about touching – Recently, I watched someone at a trade show.  He was talking with a delegate and when he led her to the table with the literature, he had his hand in the small of her back.  Ewwwww.  That kind of move belongs in romance novels not on a trade show floor.  A light touch on the arm to catch someone’s attention is sufficient.

So check out your local convention centre to see what  shows are coming up and make a date.

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