People seem to have pretty visceral feelings about behavioural interviews. I am not sure why. When you think about it, it is a pretty efficient way for a hiring manager to learn about how your approach your work and your relationships
This kind of interview is based on the theory that what you did in the past is an indicator of what you will do in the future. Most people will identify 4-6 things that they feel are needed to be successful in a role and then build questions around those activities or qualities.
Just about every job has relationships, obstacles and deadlines so you can pretty much bet there will questions about these.
Sometimes the interviewer will just throw it out there. “Tell me about a difficult relationship and how you dealt with it.”
But other times there will be a bit of a lead in. “In our group, we can only meet our deadlines if we get information from other departments and some of them run late. Can you tell me how you have been able to influence people who don’t report to you?”
The key to preparing for these conversations is to think of situations from your work life and then “package” them.
You need to set the stage, describe your actions and decisions and then wrap up with how the thing resolved.
It should be neat and compact. You want to avoid having your sentence trail off because you can’t remember your original point.
This takes practice. It’s a bit like telling your favourite joke. It makes people laugh because you can tell it well. You always remember the punch line and your timing is great. Your work stories need to be the same.
Write some questions on cards and then either shuffle them or add them to your Cards Against Humanity deck. Get some friends and get to work!