If you are like most people, you have not taken a look at your LinkedIn profile for a while. There is a reason for this: we are too busy looking at other people’s profiles.
Think of it as a summer project. Set aside 20 minutes each week to hit the edit button and take stock of what the world is seeing.
Let’s start from the top:
Does your picture still resemble you? If it features your grade eight up-do or it’s a badly lit selfie, it’s time for a fresh one.
Do you have a new title or responsibilities? Let people know – you will be amazed at the messages that roll in after you do a job or title change.
Any new courses or certificates? Those really add credibility to your experience. If you put the time and effort in to learning something new, it should be reflected in your profile.
Are you doing any new volunteer activities? They can be work-based or community-based. It all counts.
Remember you are doing this so people can find you and learn more about you. And not just recruiters like me (although it’s good for us to find you) but also peers, neighbours, and anyone else who might benefit from what you know.
In large companies, people don’t use the company directory to find out about their fellow employees, they go to LinkedIn to get the whole story, not just what’s in the directory.
So keep it fresh and real. You never know who will land in your inbox!
I used to believe in the idea of six degrees of separation but now I think it’s more like three. I keep tripping over people who are connected to people I know.
I guess in my field it’s more common to find connections. Let’s face it. I phone strangers for a living. I rarely work with the same people twice and if I do my job well, more people get pulled into the spinning wheel of connections.
There are some pretty big lessons here.
You really should try to be nice to everyone because you never want to find out that you just bad mouthed your neighbour to his best friend.
It would also be bad if you were very critical about a former boss only to find out that she just got hired where you just interviewed.
And here’s a good one: sarcasm does not work on a screen. You can use it in a phone call, video, podcast or anything else where the recipient can see your face. If they can’t see your eyes, they won’t get the joke. Trust me. This one can be messy.
So remember, that as we get older, the world gets smaller. You never know when you will find yourself talking to a future boss/reference/in-law. Be nice to everyone. If you can’t be nice, then at least be respectful and polite. It will pay off in the end and if it hasn’t paid off, then it’s not the end.
Wolverine is a comic book hero-mutant who has, among his superhero attributes, a special healing factor that causes him to recover from anything that hurts him. This is really handy when he is fighting bad guys with the X-men or the Avengers.
We would do well to remember that we are not superheroes. Transitions, whether of our own choice or chosen by someone or something else, always take longer than we think they should.
It takes time to recover from the sadness of being dumped in a corporate layoff.
It takes time to feel good after finding out that you did not get the job that was a perfect fit.
It takes time to regain momentum on a job search when you are really busy satisfying a boss you can’t stand.
Can you spare 15 minutes today? Try. It will be worth it.
- Sit down with a beverage, a pen and a piece of paper.
- Write down three things you are proud to tell people about from your career.
- Next add three things that you have achieved in your non-work life.
- Finally, if I asked three of your friends or colleagues about your best attributes, what would they say? Add those words to your list.
Sit back and take a look. Good, eh? You have a lot going for you. Take a deep breath and enjoy it for a moment.
Now, get back out there and slay those career villains!
This week’s recurring theme was the “salary apology”. Time after time, I asked candidates about their salary objective and their responses went like this : “Um…well…I am paid pretty well and I just want you to know that I am pretty flexible. Money is not that important to me.”
That is not the way to answer that question – especially when a recruiter asks. You know what we come away with? You are flexible and will take any old, low-ball salary.
You are paid what you are paid. You have done the work and now you earn that much money. The only reason to deviate from this is if you are looking to move to part time work or get into another occupation. That’s really the only time to drop your expectations.
You can certainly offer to be flexible but don’t lead with that. If you really love the sound of the role or if the commute is going to save you a ton of time or money or the company is offering a bunch of non-salary perks (like a car or a house) you can offer a salary range that gives some potential wiggle room.
If there is a big difference in what you are making and what the job is offering, chances are there are other things that will be misaligned as well. The company may be much larger or much smaller or the role might be much broader or much more narrow.
Then there is the perception a weak answer give to the hiring manager. If they hear you say you would take less money for their role and that is something they would never do, they will wonder what is wrong with a) you or b) your present situation.
Maybe the most important reason to be clear on your salary objectives is this: it is absolutely heart breaking to get through the interview process, learn that you are one that has been selected for the role and then get presented with an offer that is 20% lower that what you make now.
So be clear and honest about your compensation objectives. It’s for your own good.
Setting up an interview can be tricky. No matter how excited you are about the opportunity, it is another thing to squeeze into your already busy life.
When you are offered a time slot, make sure you can build in enough time to travel to the location and a good buffer on the other end as well.
Strategically, early and late in the day are probably best. Those times are usually easier to work into a schedule. Coming in a bit late and leaving a bit early are generally accepted for doctor’s appointments which is good because it won’t draw a ton of attention.
Things get awkward when either party is late for an interview. If you find yourself running late, call or send a short email with an apology and an estimated time of arrival. Try not to panic. You will get there when you get there and swearing at other drivers won’t make a bit of difference.
Hopefully, you took the time to prepare the night before and you know the directions and the suite number. Trying to read your phone and navigate when you are late is really hard to do.
What if you are on time, but the interviewer is late? What you do in this case is really up to you. I usually give 15 minutes grace period. That’s what I would want if I was the one who was late.
You might want to send a note to the person who set up the meeting after you have been waiting for 10 minutes. Maybe they can track the person down and find out what’s going on.
If enough time has elapsed that you are feeling a little irritated, then go. You don’t want to go into a conversation about a job in a pissed-off frame of mind. And honestly, if they don’t make time to meet you, do you really want them?
Picture this: you are in an interview with two hiring managers. One of them is looking at you, making notes and nodding often. The other is looking at you and has asked a couple of question. Then it happens. That second person yawns.
You are a bit taken aback but you keep rolling along. You spend a bit more time looking at the interviewer who seems more engaged. Then it happens again. The yawn. By the third yawn, you are questioning why you are even there.
On the way home, you are battling in your mind. Was it a big deal or a small deal? Tiny red flag or monumental deal killer?
Probably the latter.
According to Carol Blades, Master Facilitator at LHH Knightsbridge, this is a form of micro-aggression and it is definitely a sign that things will not work out.
Even if one half of the hiring team loves you, the other half is just not into you.
You can surmise the same thing if that person cannot seem to remember your name or turns a shoulder to you instead of facing you.
Even if all the stars align and they make you an offer, you will have a long and uphill battle to win the yawner over.
The bottom line is that you need to take interviewing seriously. You need to do your research on what the company is looking for and what YOU are looking for. Be able to articulate with confidence on both.
In your post-interview assessment, pay attention to the little red flags and the big ones. Decide carefully on if and how you want to proceed with the process.
Don’t ignore your gut on this – it’s too important.
It is Mental Health Week and the Canadian Mental Health Association is running a week long awareness campaign. We are being encouraged to #get loud – a trendy way of telling us to stop being embarrassed or callous and get on with learning about the issues.
Mental illness is difficult to understand. If you have never suffered from depression, it is hard to understand that someone cannot just “snap out of it” or “get over it”.
It is so easy to joke about a colleague’s behaviour instead of taking the time to try to understand what they might be going through.
There are many resources available to help us with this.
These sites offer free resources to employees, friends, colleagues, managers and HR Departments. There is a lot of good stuff here to help you get familiar with different types of depression, anxiety and other forms of mental illness.
I am not saying you need to become a psychologist for your cube-mate. There are Employee Assistance programs for that. But you can be more empathetic and understanding towards people who are having difficulty. You would hold the door for the guy with the crutches, right?
You know what would be a good start? If we took negative mental health references out of our everyday conversations. “That guy is crazy!” “My client just went nuts.” I think that would go a long way towards helping our friends and colleagues feel like there is more support and that they are not as alone.
So, read up and be nice. We are counting on you.